positivity is popularity

The most popular person in your social circle is also the happiest.  This is not an accident.  It’s not cause and effect.  The fact that person is the happiest is the reason for their popularity, not the other way around.  Human beings are naturally attracted to joy, to positivity.  They naturally retreat from pain, drama, and suffering.  If you’re the type of person who dwells on the negative, complains, or whines constantly about perceived slights against you well, you’re paying a price.  That price is popularity.  Whether conscious or sub conscious in nature, people are judging you on your attitude.  They are also making conscientious choices about whether or not you should be invited to planned activities.  I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again; life is a collection of experiences.  Nothing more, nothing less.

How many of them are your attitude costing you?